What does lover mean?
A lover is someone who loves another person, especially in a romantic or intimate relationship. The word can also describe a person who is deeply fond of a subject or activity: someone may be a lover of poetry, music, travel, or the outdoors. In another common usage, “a former lover” identifies someone with whom the speaker once had a romantic relationship. “Lover” is broadly used in both British and American English and is often more literary or emotionally expressive than the more neutral “partner.” Its meaning can be affectionate, romantic, nostalgic, or occasionally critical, depending on context. The word is also notable for extending the idea of love beyond human relationships, allowing people to describe objects, arts, places, and activities as beloved without implying a physical relationship.
nounA person who loves someone, especially someone with whom they have a romantic or intimate relationship. It can also mean a person who is fond of or enthusiastic about something.
- A person who loves another person, especially in a romantic or intimate relationship.
- A person who likes or is enthusiastic about a particular thing, activity, or subject.
- A former romantic partner, especially in the context of a past relationship.
"She met her partner, a devoted lover of the arts, at a gallery opening."
"Their long-distance relationship tested them as lovers and friends."
"He is a lover of old maps and frequently spends weekends tracing the history of forgotten routes."
"She recognized her former lover immediately, even though they had not seen each other in years."
Used for multiple people who love someone or are enthusiastic about something.
"The exhibition attracted art lovers from across the country."
“Lover” comes from the same ancient root as “amor” and “amateur,” linking romantic love with enthusiasm for something worth cherishing.
Reviewed by Deb Chak, Editor. AI-assisted content curated by RJS Tech Solutions LLP.
Etymology of lover
The word “lover” entered Middle English through Anglo-French, ultimately deriving from Latin amator, a noun meaning “one who loves.” Its English form developed alongside the more familiar “love,” which comes from the same Latin verb amare. The same broad family includes words such as “amor,” “amorous,” “amatory,” and “amateur.”
Related word forms
How lover is actually used
The word is neutral in tone and can be formal or informal. In its romantic sense, it may sound more literary or traditional than “partner” or “spouse.”
Easily confused with lover
A lover typically has a romantic or intimate relationship, whereas an admirer may simply hold someone in high regard.